Saturday 19 June 2010

Learn from your Mistake


Perhaps you tried to do something to change your financial life and you realised that everything you did was for no use and you realised that you should have done things differently. You realised that you made a MISTAKE.
Now what?
Now you live your life with the memories of your mistake 24/7. Every time you think about doing something to change your financial life you remember the mistakes you made before and the thoughts come to your mind saying “look you tried before and it didn’t work” or “you are going to lose money and time again” or maybe “you will never succeed”.
Then you just give up and go back to your boring 9 - 5 job, and live an unfulfilled life and you’re always unhappy with yourself because you always thought you would be better than this. Maybe you though you would be in a better financial position and the clock is ticking, you are getting older and everything around you is changing but you are still frozen were you started.
But what you don’t know is that, now you have all you need to be successful in your life now you know what you should do differently and what you should have done better before. But most of us tend do think that it will not work again.
You have to get out of your comfort zone and think about everything that you should have done different and do it now.
Instead of you having negative thoughts, you have to remember that every successful person became successful because they made mistakes and they learned from it.
What will make you successful is your mistake. (If you learn from it)
Now go out there and BE what you always wanted to be, don’t be scared to make a mistake.



Jones Lincoln

Friday 11 June 2010

People listen to you because...

People listen to you because of your integrity. (Or they don't, because you lack it.)
People listen to you because of the sacrifices you have made and the things you have suffered.
People listen to you because your life is an open book.
People listen to you because you have succeeded.
People listen to you because of what you know.
People listen to you because of who you know.
People listen to you because they sense you are genuinely humble.
People listen to you because you have their best interests at heart.
People listen to you because you do things better than anyone else.
People listen to you because you show you truly believe in your convictions.
People listen to you because you understand their needs.

Is anyone listening to you?

THE COACH


The starting point for the coach is to believe in the player, in his potential.
Then he identifies his strengths and weaknesses.
He decides what to do to maximize his strengths and eliminate his weaknesses.
He is demanding, because he knows that every player is a reflection of the coach.
He disciplines with a firm hand but not to the point of hurt, because he knows the limits of the person.
He shows how it's done and provides the necessary tools for the job to be done.
He teaches.
He is a friend but not a buddy.
He helps the person achieve more than he could ever do alone.

Every father (and mother) is a coach.
Every teacher is a coach.
Every boss is a coach.
Every leader is a coach.
YOU are a coach — if not to another person, at least to yourself.


What kind of coach have you been?